What do you think?
The Romance of a time, or rather the male-female relations than once, were
more durable and always came to the end of life, as would the promise
before an altar (this still applies even for non
believers), "until death do you part."
Certainly there came with the joy and love of the first day, but there
arrived. One could count on (at least) and in the presence of the
house there was someone to talk about anything (the rent that
increased, ....). Perhaps in some cases felt the need for another
relationship, but in almost all cases is limited to a sensual relationship
without never question the true relationship.
I speak of the times of our grandparents, there was a time when the cultural level of
today, and where a lot was working hard to remedy what it takes to live
.
Today, we have a fairly high level of culture, we are inundated with information
and we know many things. The standard of living and much more
up and we can also easily procure the superfluous (not all
perhaps ...). By contrast the male-female relationships have changed, I think, in
worse. Our cultural level tells us whether it is more correct to express
totally what our feelings lead us to do or want, although this may
grieve their partners, perhaps because
could be even more painful to continue a relationship, pretending
and ignoring everything else. The modern couples need to talk civilly to everything, even
of whether you're in love with qulcun'altro and then decide what is best
("what you say, dear, and let us remain friends?" "I know you still
well, but do not feel what I felt for you once ...
and so on).
seems to me that this view
a relationship is more than a setback
progress. It is unwilling to sacrifice part of their being,
to continue to stay with the person with which you have chosen to live
(whether in marriage or in cohabitation). The passions, which do exist today
able to prevail on the life choices made earlier. And
'This is the mature man of today? I'm not saying that to be "mature" should be
live forever with the first boy or girl first met in
own life, I say that at some point (it can happen in 18 years, 25 to
40) will work a lifestyle choice, it swears eternal love, "I will not let
never ".... And that's where maturity comes into question, if the things you say make sense
; the important choices must also be valid forever
because on these we build the future together, we are the sons and
let me tell you, you grow old together.
will blame culture? Models that provides
society through various channels of information? It will be the fault of the rhythms of our daily life
that, as the atoms in a chemistry experiment,
us to unite, separate and recombine with other elements?
will be opportunities for work, entertainment and anything else that brings us into contact with many people
that even in a probabilistic calculation, is easier to find someone who
(apparently) gratifies us more of our partner-wife
?
Maybe I thought too and I went up in smoke the brain, but I find it inexplicable
really like in small villages, there is more stability in couples
than cities.
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